Being in a relationship with a girl that is studying far away. . .

As you can see, Im on a relationship with a girl a few months ago. Things were very complicated at the beginning, starting to clean up though more and more, everytime we met again. I really care about this girl. I have a lot of beautiful feelings about her, but its hard not to be able to show them -due to the distance- to her face to face. You have to find other ways, usually smart and surprising to make her feel you next to her, make her feel warm, make her feel sweet with a red face...

Having a distant relationship is hard. You never know whats going on the other side of the phone... Thats why you have to be confident and trust your girl. But you have to know about this, before you decide to start this relationship. Trust is a very important part of a relationship like this one. When there is a mutual trust, things can always be good. On the other hand when the one side starts being mistrustfull, things are getting difficult. This mean that call fights (which is another chapter that needs to be analyzed) are getting more and more.

Call fights in general is the most difficult part, especially when the one side doesn't care about the other one. Hanging off the phone, yelling and irony are starting to appear, words and phrases that are out of every logic, without a base to support them, are getting in your head and hurt like a nail in your ass... You feel misunderstood, you feel unfairly treated, you feel that you want to throw your phone away, (usually in a cannibalistic manner, to the point that the louder sound will be achieved) you feel speechless, you feel lost and empty, from the opinions that you hear from the other side. Usually call fights, are leading the relationship to an end.

Lets dig up again the warm, sweet part, of a distant relationship. As I already told you, smart and surprising moves (THAT YOU REALLY MEAN), get a huge amount of acceptance from the other side. Do them, enjoy them and their good consequences, and be happy. Be happy that you know you gave everything to her, tried everything for her and being really felt a lot of emotions about her. Thats all you can do.

So be patient, be true, be surprising, be trustfull, be confident, appreciate the other side's efforts to make it also feel the same...

I am really happy with my girl now. I m in the army in Kilkis and she is studying 596 kilometers away in Athens. Maybe somebody will call me a great MALAKA instead of great Alexander. I just don't care. I just love her. I just want time to pass, to have her again in my hug. Love you babe. I miss you so much...

Hello! I welcome you to my brand new blog, where I will share my thoughts, experiences and memories with you!

Hello! I would like to welcome you to my brand new blog. Here is the place where I will share my thoughts, experiences and memories with you. I hope you will find them all interesting and will spend some good time reading them. I wish you all, health first of all, and then happiness and joy in your life.

Yours

Alexandros Apostolidis